"Jealousy is, without a doubt, a very common experience in our culture- so much so that a person who doesn't experience jealousy is looked at as a bit odd, or as in denial." p. 32

"Or it may simply be a natural extension of an emotional and physical attraction to someone besides the primary partner." p. 33

"Knowing, loving and respecting yourself is an absolute prerequisite to knowing,loving and respecting someone else. Cut yourself some slack." p. 67

"Throughout your experience - as you feel pain, ambivalence, joy- you must speak your own truth, first to yourself, then to those around you." p. 67

"Talking to a few friends let her know she was in the majority." p. 98

"When sport-fucking means treating your partners as objects rather than as human beings, this does not meet our requirements for mutual respect." p. 85

"We do not believe love is a game which you...