Mary Gaitskill

Mary Gaitskill is the author of the novel Two Girls, Fat and Thin. In the following viewpoint, Gaitskill argues that it is important for women who have been raped or sexually violated to come to terms with their feelings about having been victimized. Although some women’s experiences may not fit the classic definition of violent rape, she asserts, that does not make their emotional pain any less real. Rather than condemning women for expressing their feelings and claiming status as victims, Gaitskill maintains, society should work to reduce the threat of sexual violence against women.

As you read, consider the following questions:

1. In Gaitskill’s opinion, why was she unable to stand up for herself at the age of sixteen?
2. Why are people prone to exaggeration when discussing traumatic experiences...