When does Jude finally decide it's time to visit his wife in Massachusetts in the novel, We All Want Impossible Things?

At the start of the novel, Ash, Edi, and Jude decide that Edi should go into hospice care in Massachusetts so that Jude can stay in New York with Dash and shield him from his mother's death. Jude does not come to Massachusetts to see Edi until Ash informs him that it is time to say goodbye.