What is the theme in Telling Secrets by Frederick Buechner?

Keeping secrets is a theme. The story of life-long denial is told by author Frederick Buechner in his autobiographical account, "Telling Secrets". The "telling of secrets" successfully caps a life-time of self-deception and "keeping secrets." When the young Frederick is faced with the suicide death of his father, he learns from his mother to attach shame and humiliation to the incident. Frederick's mother whisks him and his brother away from the scene of the tragedy in New Jersey to Bermuda to begin a new life and bury the unpleasantness of the past.