Ender's Shadow Habits of Mind

I need specific example (3 or 4) when characters in Ender's Shadow use the Habits of Mind:

Persisting

Managing Impulsivity

Listening with Understanding and Empathy

Thinking Flexibly

Striving for Accuracy

Questioning and Posing Problems

Applying Past Knowledge to New Situations

Thinking and Communicating with Clarity & Precision

Responding with Wonderment and Awe

Taking Responsible Risks

Finding Humor

Thinking Interdependently

Remaining Open to Continuous Learning