In A Feast for Crows, the house of black and white is not as cut and dried as all of that. People come there to die for a myriad of reasons, some of them good and some of them not so good. In essence, the author seems to be suggesting that death is not cut and dried, or black and white. And, that there are many types of death. In many respects, Arya dies several times to her old life and her old beliefs.