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This test consists of 5 short answer questions, 10 short essay questions, and 1 (of 3) essay topics.

Short Answer Questions

1. In what section does one of the authors reveal the discovery that "jealousy needn't kill"?

2. According to the book, jealousy can inform people about all of the following, EXCEPT for which of these?

3. What does the section "Who's to Blame?" advocate?

4. The authors developed and sustained meaningful long-term networks of people while practicing what?

5. What is the first subheading of the chapter devoted to "Jealousy"?

Short Essay Questions

1. In terms of boundaries, how do the authors feel about sluts being accused of being indiscriminate?

2. How does one of the authors illustrate the idea that jealousy can tell people what they need or want for themselves?

3. How do the authors interpret the concept of the 'slut'?

4. What are some of the factors the authors mention which can contribute to how easily a person might get jealous?

5. What is one of the most important attributes for healthy sluts, and why?

6. What do the authors suggest is the 'best' way to mess a relationship up, and what are the effects?

7. What is the essential viewpoint of the book and the authors on sexuality and sexual behavior?

8. How do the authors strike a balance between their relationship with one another and their relationships with other people?

9. How does the book's example of the Omni address the need of individuals to conquer perceived isolation?

10. How do the authors address conflict and resolution in regard to relationships?

Essay Topics

Write an essay for ONE of the following topics:

Essay Topic 1

Conflict is part of every relationship that includes intimacy. Discuss intentional ways of resolving and creating conflict that are addressed in the book, as well as the motivation behind these methods.

Essay Topic 2

Explain how the authors redefine the term "sex" and include special consideration of the meaning of "outercourse" as well as comparison to traditional views and definitions.

Essay Topic 3

The authors write that sluts "actually have more boundaries than most folks" because they have "more points of contact" (p. 117). Discuss the types of boundaries mentioned in the book and how they affect relationships, in support or refutation of the preceding quote.

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