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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Listening to complaints does not equate to which behavior?
(a) Acceptance.
(b) Understanding.
(c) Awareness.
(d) Forgiveness.

2. The bulk of the book is dedicated to which topic?
(a) Accepting the lover as an equal.
(b) Forgiving the unfaithful partner.
(c) Understanding childhood experiences.
(d) Healing after an affair.

3. The intense attachment a hurt partner may feel towards the unfaithful partner could override which of the following?
(a) Irrationality.
(b) Reason.
(c) Normalcy.
(d) Consequences.

4. For communication to occur in the marriage, what must happen with the lover?
(a) The hurt partner must confront the lover.
(b) The unfaithful partner must end the relationship with the lover.
(c) The unfaithful partner mus understand their attraction to the lover.
(d) The hurt partner must accept the lover.

5. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?
(a) The affair can lead to a stronger marriage.
(b) The passion can be reignited in a marriage.
(c) The damage done by an affair is deep.
(d) The marriage usually ends in divorce.

Short Answer Questions

1. Both partners should listen in which way?

2. What is the second phase of post-affair healing?

3. If an affair is not completely understood, the unfaithful partner may react in which way?

4. After the affair is discovered, how does the unfaithful partner typically react to the repeated lying in which they had been engaging?

5. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?

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