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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. How should partners treat their unrealistic expectations of love and marriage?
(a) Decide mutually to forget them.
(b) Examine their origins.
(c) Undergo couples counseling.
(d) Critique each others' beliefs.

2. All extramarital affairs are viewed in which way by the text?
(a) Excusable.
(b) Inevitable.
(c) Unforgivable.
(d) Damaging.

3. Negative and destructive thoughts are linked to which psychological effect suffered by the hurt partner?
(a) Loss of connection with others.
(b) Loss of religious faith.
(c) Loss of personal identity.
(d) Loss of control over mind and body.

4. According to Chapter 6, how can trust be restored in a person?
(a) Changing personal behavior to display trustworthiness.
(b) Recommitting fully to the relationship.
(c) Addressing the root causes of the affair.
(d) Cutting off all communication to the lover.

5. After an affair is discovered, how is the personal identity of hurt partner affected?
(a) It is recreated.
(b) It is stabilized.
(c) It is lost.
(d) It is improved.

Short Answer Questions

1. The book urges readers to take an inventory of which aspect of their lives?

2. A formal announcement by the partners should be made at which stage?

3. If the expectations of love and marriage are not modified, they can lead to which type of relationship?

4. When friends and family withdraw from the unfaithful partner, who can provide a temporary substitute?

5. After an emotional confrontation, how do women typically feel?

(see the answer key)

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