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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 7 - How to Talk About What Happened.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. Which topic is often-overlooked in discussing extramarital affairs?
(a) The affair can lead to a stronger marriage.
(b) The damage done by an affair is deep.
(c) The marriage usually ends in divorce.
(d) The passion can be reignited in a marriage.

2. For trust to be regained in a relationship, what must happen?
(a) The affair must be analyzed from all angles.
(b) The hurt partner must have an affair as well.
(c) The root causes of the affair must be eliminated.
(d) The lover must be involved in couples counseling.

3. Chapter seven is divided into sections based on which two skills?
(a) Forgiving and forgetting.
(b) Communicating and understanding.
(c) Talking and listening.
(d) Acknowledging and accepting.

4. The signs of an affair are often treated in which way by the hurt partner?
(a) They are explained away.
(b) They are confronted.
(c) They are ignored.
(d) They are accepted.

5. Both partners should listen in which way?
(a) With love.
(b) Without judgment.
(c) With concentration.
(d) Without reacting.

Short Answer Questions

1. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?

2. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?

3. What is the main purpose of the book?

4. After a decision is made, what must the couple do next to rebuild their relationship?

5. What is one of the main purposes of the introduction?

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