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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. If a childhood experience is missing from a person's life, the person will compensate with patterned, negative behavior referred to with which term?
(a) Void.
(b) Deficiency.
(c) Schema.
(d) Illusion.

2. If the listener repeats the ideas back to the speaker, they are using which technique?
(a) Mirror.
(b) Crossover.
(c) Intimacy.
(d) Equality.

3. For whom must forgiveness occur?
(a) For themselves and the lover.
(b) For their partner and themselves.
(c) For the lover and their partner.
(d) For their parents and their partner.

4. Inadequacy in the relationship is felt by whom?
(a) Neither of the hurt partners.
(b) Female hurt partners.
(c) Male hurt partners.
(d) Both male and female hurt partners.

5. Future affairs will not be likely to occur if which action is taken?
(a) The unfaithful partner changes careers.
(b) The hurt partner works to regain self-esteem.
(c) The reasons for the affair are discussed with the lover.
(d) The underlying causes are examined and corrected.

Short Answer Questions

1. Why does the author deliberately chose particular words and phrases to use in the book?

2. The majority of the blame for an affair belongs to whom?

3. Which term does the book use to describe the partner who is involved in the affair?

4. Behaviors that build trust are divided in the book into two categories based on which factor?

5. What will happen to conflict after forgiveness?

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