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This quiz consists of 5 multiple choice and 5 short answer questions through Chapter 9 - Learning to Forgive.

Multiple Choice Questions

1. When trust has been destroyed, which emotion is logically prevalent?
(a) Fear.
(b) Doubt.
(c) Guilt.
(d) Anger.

2. Why would the hurt partner feel as if they are disposable?
(a) They cannot accurately express their emotions.
(b) They regret the time lost with their partner.
(c) They lose the sense of being special.
(d) They compare themselves to the lover.

3. Basic goals and new boundaries should be decided on by whom?
(a) Both partners.
(b) The unfaithful partner and a religious leader.
(c) The hurt partner and the marriage counselor.
(d) The partners and the lover.

4. Many people erroneously feel that their partners should be able to sense which of the following?
(a) Their demands.
(b) Their frustration.
(c) Their hurt.
(d) Their needs.

5. Negative feelings are not implied during forgiveness to have which outcome?
(a) Be justified the unfaithful partner.
(b) Be forgotten with the affair.
(c) Be replaced by positive feelings.
(d) Be accepted by both partners.

Short Answer Questions

1. How many reasons does the book address that could explain a lack of guilt on the part of the unfaithful partner?

2. If forgiveness is offered too quickly, how can it affect the individual?

3. When hurt partners engage in obsession behaviors, how is this related to the discovery of the affair?

4. How should behaviors that detract from trust be addressed?

5. The negative reactions of friends and family can enhance which feeling for the unfaithful partner?

(see the answer key)

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