be gone before we know it. It is a well-known
psychological law that if we choke the expression
of an emotion, we shall presently find that we have
smothered the emotion itself. It may seem like
hollow pretense at first, but it will pay to pretend
hard; when we have pretended long enough, we shall
find we no longer need to pretend. There will
always be those, no doubt, who will declare it impossible,
and they will continue to be unhappy; there will be
many others who will concede the possibility of it,
but will not have the determination and persistence
to effect it; but there will always be some who will
say, “Happiness is possible!” who will
set out to get it, and who will get it, as they will
deserve to. Some men are born happy, some seem
to have happiness thrust upon them, but some achieve
happiness. It will not be the same kind of happiness
that we had as children, before the shocks of life
awoke us. It will be a happiness that meets and
rises above pain. Life will always have its tragedies,
sickness and separation, pain and sudden death.
They are the common inheritance of mankind. But
it is not these things in themselves that make life
unendurable, it is the way we take them, our fear
of them, our worry over them, our longings and rebelliousness,
our magnifying and brooding over and shrinking from
them; when we resolve to lift our heads and assert
our power, we shall find life tragic, yes, but endurable,
and full of a deep joy. The little worries and
disappointments will cease to trouble us. And
the same attitude that enables us to rise above them
will, when more staunchly held, lift us over the great
sorrows also, and keep alive in us an under glow of
joy. An under glow of joy-that is what can be
found in life in any but its highly abnormal phases,
by conforming to its conditions and taking it for
what it is, stuff which, we have to shape into service
to the ideal. It should be recognized as the final
word of personal morality that a man must train himself
to a happiness that is independent of circumstances.
We need no mystical painting out of the shadows, no
blindness to facts, only a will to serve the right,
a readiness to accept the imperfect, and eyes to see
the beauty that surrounds us. “If I have
faltered more or less In my great task of happiness,
If I have moved among my race And shown no glorious
morning face, If beams from happy human eyes Have
moved me not; if morning skies, Books” and my
food, and summer rain, Knocked on my sullen heart in
vain. If, in short, we have not disciplined ourselves
to happiness, it may well be maintained that we have
left undone our highest duty to our neighbor and ourselves.
And he may with good reason declare that he has solved
the greatest problem of life who can proclaim with
Tolstoy, “I rejoice in having taught myself not
to be sad!” or with the Apostle Paul, “I
have learned in whatsoever state I am therein to be
content.” Much of the secret of happiness
is to be found in Epictetus and Marcus Aurelius and,
of course, in the Gospels. Of modern writers,
among the most useful are Stevenson and Chesterton.
See, for example, Stevenson’s Christmas Sermon,
and J. F. Genung’s Stevenson’s Attitude
toward Life. Chesterton’s counsels are too
sattered to make reference practicable.