It is surprising, looking through such a one’s
eyes, to see how full life is of delight. Yet
in the same situations there may be room for endless
complaint if “every grief is entertained that’s
offered.” It all depends on the attitude
taken. In trouble one man will fall to fretting,
while another does what can be done and then turns
his thoughts to something else; in discomfort one
will lower the corners of his mouth and feel wretched,
while the other finds it all vastly amusing; one will
have his day quite spoiled by some disappointment
which the other takes as a mere incident; one will
find the same environment dull and stupid which the
other finds full of interest and opportunity; and
so out of like conditions one will make an unhappy,
the other a happy life. [Footnote: Cf. “In
journeying often, in perils of waters, in perils of
robbers, in perils by mine own countrymen, in perils
by the heathen, in perils in the city, in perils in
the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among
false brethren, in weariness and painfulness, in watching
often, in hunger and thirst, in fasting often, in
cold and nakedness . . . yet always rejoicing!”
“Rejoicing in tribulation” even, because
to the brave man every obstacle and failure is so
much further opportunity for courage and contrivance,
for matching himself against things. “Human
joy,” writes the author of the Simple Life,
“has celebrated its finest triumphs under the
greatest tests of endurance.” The Apostle
Paul is but one of many who have welcomed each rebuff,
and proved that if rightly taken life almost at its
worst can be transmuted by courage into happiness.]
This, then, is the philosophy of happiness in a nutshell:
Put your heart into doing
your duty;
demand nothing else
of life than the opportunity
to do your duty;
enjoy freely
and without fear everything good
and beautiful that comes in
your way.
To acquire and keep this attitude of mind requires
of course resolution and persistence. We must
rouse ourselves and take sides. We must definitely
pledge ourselves once and for all to happiness; and
if we] cannot at a leap attain to it, we must still
remember that we have committed ourselves to that
side. We must pretend to be happy, throw aside
all complaining and sighs and long faces; whatever
comes, we must remember that we are on trial to preserve
our buoyancy, our power not to be downcast. We
shall not be able] to disuse our habit of unhappiness
at once. But if we stick to our colors and refuse
to add to whatever depression masters us by brooding
upon it and giving it right of way; if we remember
the conditions of happiness stated above, and thrust
resolutely from us all thoughts and words incompatible
with living according to them, the unhappiness will