attempts to salve one’s own conscience by making
one’s statements true “in a sense,”
and yet gain the advantage of an out-and- out lie,
are miserable make-shifts and utterly demoralizing.
There is “not much in a truthfulness which is
only phrase-deep.” Whether we deceive others
or no, we cannot afford to deceive ourselves; we should
never deviate a hair’s breadth from the truth
without acknowledging the deviation to ourselves as
a necessary but unfortunate evil. A man may say
nothing but what is true, and yet intentionally give
a wrong impression; “truth in spirit, not truth
to the letter, is the true veracity.” “A
lie may be told by a truth, or a truth conveyed by
a lie.” “A man may have sat in a room
for hours and not opened his teeth, and yet come out
of that room a disloyal friend or a vile calumniator."[Footnote:
Stevenson, Virginibus Puerisque, chap. IV.] If
a man lies deliberately and regretfully, for an end
that seems to him to require it, he may be making
a mistake; but he is escaping the worst danger of
lying. He is not corrupting his soul, blurring
his vision of the line between sincerity and insincerity,
and numbing his conscience so that presently he will
lie as a matter of course — and be universally
distrusted. All of this is very clear, and sufficiently
explains our ideal of veracity. But it is not
enough for moralists to dwell upon the general necessity
of truthfulness; the problems connected therewith
arise when one asks, Are there not legitimate or even
obligatory exceptions to the rule? Except for
a few theorists who are more attracted by unity and
simplicity than by the concrete complexities of life,
practically all agree that there are occasions when
lying is necessary, occasions when the confidence
of men would not be destroyed by a lie because of the
clearly exceptional nature of the case. Can we
lay down any useful rules in the matter, indicating
what types of cases require untruthfulness? What
exceptions are allowable to the duty of truthfulness?
Love undoubtedly sometimes requires, and oftener still
excuses, a lie.
(1) There are the trite cases where by misinformation
a prospective murderer is misled and his potential
victim saved;[Footnote: Cf. the somewhat similar
situation in Victor Hugo’s Les Miserables (Fantine,
last chapter) where Soeur Simplice lies to Javert about
Jean Valjean. Hugo applauds the lie perhaps too
extravagantly ("O sainte fille! que ce mensonge vous
soit compte dans le paradis!"); but few probably would
condemn it. Another interesting case is that of
a French girl in the days of the Commune. On
her way to execution her fiance tried to interfere;
but she, realizing that if he were known to be her
lover he would likewise be executed, looked coldly
upon him and said, “Sir, I never knew you!”]
where a sick man, who would have less chance of recovery
if he realized his dangerous condition, is cheered
and carried over the critical point by loving deception;
where a theater catches fire and a disastrous panic