“Your son at the present writing is mighty well employed in tumbling on the floor of the room, and sweeping the sand with a feather. He grows a most delightful child, and very full of play and spirit. He is also a very great scholar. He can read his primer, and I have brought down my Virgil. He makes most shrewd remarks about the pictures. We are very intimate friends and play-fellows. He begins to be very ragged, and I hope I shall be pardoned if I equip him with new clothes and frocks.” Or again:- - “The brats, my girls, stand on each side of the table, and Molly says what I am writing now is about her new coat. Bess is with me till she has new clothes. Miss Moll has taken upon her to hold the sand-box,* and is so impertinent in her office that I cannot write more. But you are to take this letter as from your three best friends, Bess, Moll, and their Father.
In those days there was no blotting-paper, and sand was used to dry the ink.
“Moll bids me let you know that she fell down just now and did not hurt herself.”
Soon after this Steele set out for Scotland, and although the business which brought him could not have been welcome to many a Scottish gentleman, he himself was well received. They forgot the Whig official in the famous writer. In Edinburgh he was feasted and feted. “You cannot imagine,” wrote Steele, “the civilities and honours I had done me there. I never lay better, ate or drank better, or conversed with men of better sense than there.” Poets and authors greeted him in verse, he was “Kind Richy Spec, the friend to a’ distressed,” “Dear Spec,” and many stories are told of his doings among these new-found friends. He paid several later visits to Scotland, but about a year after his return from this first short visit Steele had a great sorrow. His wife died. “This is to let you know,” he writes to a cousin, “that my dear and honoured wife departed this life last night.”
And now that his children were motherless, Steele, when he was away from them, wrote to them, always tender, often funny, letters. It is Betty, the eldest, he addresses, she is “Dear Child,” “My dear Daughter,” “My good Girlie.” He bids them be good and grow like their mother. “I have observed that your sister,” he says in one letter, “has for the first time written the initial or first letters of her name. Tell her I am highly delighted to see her subscription in such fair letters. And how many fine things those two letters stand for when she writes them. M. S. is Milk and Sugar, Mirth and Safety, Music and Songs, Meat and Sauce, as well as Molly and Spot, and Mary and Steele.” I think the children must have loved their kind father who wrote such pretty nonsense to them.