of equitie and libertie: witnesse the comfortable
loves of Hermodius and Aristogiton. Therefore
name they it sacred and divine, and it concerns not
them whether the violence of tyrants, or the demisnesse
of the people be against them: To conclude, all
that can be alleged in favour of the Academy, is to
say, that it was a love ending in friendship, a thing
which hath no bad reference unto the Stoical definition
of love: Amorem conatum esse amicitiae faciendae
ex pulchritudinis specie: [Footnote: Cic.
Tusc. Qu. ir. c. 34. ] “That love is an
endevour of making friendship, by the shew of beautie.”
I returne to my description in a more equitable and
equall manner. Omnino amicitiae, corroboratis
jam confirmatisque ingeniis et aetatibus, judicandae
sunt. [Footnote: Cic. Amic.] “Clearely
friendships are to be judged by wits, and ages already
strengthened and confirmed.” As for the
rest, those we ordinarily call friendes and amities,
are but acquaintances and familiarities, tied together
by some occasion or commodities, by meanes whereof
our mindes are entertained. In the amitie I speake
of, they entermixe and confound themselves one in the
other, with so universall a commixture, that they
weare out and can no more finde the seame that hath
conjoined them together. If a man urge me to
tell wherefore I loved him, I feele it cannot be expressed,
but by answering; Because it was he, because it was
my selfe. There is beyond all my discourse, and
besides what I can particularly report of it, I know
not what inexplicable and fatall power, a meane and
Mediatrix of this indissoluble union. We sought
one another before we had scene one another, and by
the reports we heard one of another; which wrought
a greater violence in us, than the reason of reports
may well beare; I thinke by some secret ordinance of
the heavens, we embraced one another by our names.
And at our first meeting, which was by chance at a
great feast, and solemne meeting of a whole towneship,
we found our selves so surprized, so knowne, so acquainted,
and so combinedly bound together, that from thence
forward, nothing was so neer unto us as one unto anothers.
He writ an excellent Latyne Satyre since published;
by which he excuseth and expoundeth the precipitation
of our acquaintance, so suddenly come to her perfection;
Sithence it must continue so short a time, and begun
so late (for we were both growne men, and he some yeares
older than my selfe) there was no time to be lost.
And it was not to bee modelled or directed by the
paterne of regular and remisse [Footnote: Slight,
languid.] friendship, wherein so many precautions
of a long and preallable conversation [Footnote:
Preceding intercourse.] are required. This hath
no other Idea than of it selfe, and can have no reference
but to itselfe. It is not one especiall consideration,
nor two, nor three, nor foure, nor a thousand:
It is I wot not what kinde of quintessence, of all
this commixture, which having seized all my will,