could never yet by any example attaine unto it, and
is by ancient schooles rejected thence. And this
other Greeke licence is justly abhorred by our customes,
which notwithstanding, because according to use it
had so necessarie a disparitie of ages, and difference
of offices betweene lovers, did no more sufficiently
answer the perfect union and agreement, which here
we require: Quis est enim iste amor amicitiae?
cur neque deformem adolescentem quisquam amat, neque
formosum senem? [Footnote: Cic. Tusc.
Qu. lv. c. 33.] “For, what love is this of friendship?
why doth no man love either a deformed young man, or
a beautifull old man?” For even the picture
the Academic makes of it, will not (as I suppose)
disavowe mee, to say thus in her behalfe: That
the first furie, enspired by the son of Venus in the
lovers hart, upon the object of tender youths-flower,
to which they allow all insolent and passionate violences,
an immoderate heat may produce, was simply grounded
upon an externall beauty; a false image of corporall
generation: for in the spirit it had no power,
the sight whereof was yet concealed, which was but
in his infancie, and before the age of budding.
For, if this furie did seize upon a base minded courage,
the meanes of its pursuit were riches, gifts, favour
to the advancement of dignities, and such like vile
merchandice, which they reprove. If it fell into
a more generous minde, the interpositions [Footnote:
Means of approach.] were likewise generous: Philosophicall
instructions, documents [Footnote: Teachings.]
to reverence religion, to obey the lawes, to die for
the good of his countrie: examples of valor,
wisdome and justice; the lover endevoring and studying
to make himselfe acceptable by the good grace and
beauty of his minde (that of his body being long since
decayed) hoping by this mentall society to establish
a more firme and permanent bargaine. When this
pursuit attained the effect in due season (for by
not requiring in a lover, he should bring leasure
and discretion in his enterprise, they require it exactly
in the beloved; forasmuch as he was to judge of an
internall beauty, of difficile knowledge, and abstruse
discovery) then by the interposition of a spiritual
beauty was the desire of a spiritual conception engendred
in the beloved. The latter was here chiefest;
the corporall, accidentall and second, altogether contrarie
to the lover. And therefore doe they preferre
the beloved, and verifie that the gods likewise preferre
the same: and greatly blame the Poet AEschylus,
who in the love betweene Achilles and Patroclus ascribeth
the lovers part unto Achilles, who was in the first
and beardlesse youth of his adolescency, and the fairest
of the Graecians. After this general communitie,
the mistris and worthiest part of it, predominant
and exercising her offices (they say the most availefull
commodity did thereby redound both to the private and
publike). That it was the force of countries
received the use of it, and the principall defence