with one conceit of mine, which contrarie to the common
use I hold, and that is all I am able to affoord you
concerning that matter. The charge of the Tutor,
which you shall appoint your sonne, in the choice of
whom consisteth the whole substance of his education
and bringing up; on which are many branches depending,
which (forasmuch as I can adde nothing of any moment
to it) I will not touch at all. And for that
point, wherein I presume to advise him, he may so far
forth give credit unto it, as he shall see just cause.
To a gentleman borne of noble parentage, and heire
of a house that aymeth at true learning, and in it
would be disciplined, not so much for gane or commoditie
to himselfe (because so abject an end is far unworthie
the grace and favour of the Muses, and besides, hath
a regard or dependencie of others) nor for externall
shew and ornament, but to adorne and enrich his inward
minde, desiring rather to shape and institute an able
and sufficient man, than a bare learned man; my desire
is therefore, that the parents or overseers of such
a gentleman be very circumspect, and careful in chusing
his director, whom I would rather commend for having
a well composed and temperate braine, than a full
stuft head, yet both will doe well. And I would
rather prefer wisdome, judgement, civill customes,
and modest behaviour, than bare and meere literall
learning; and that in his charge he hold a new course.
Some never cease brawling in their schollers eares
(as if they were still pouring in a tonell) to follow
their booke, yet is their charge nothing else but to
repeat what hath beene told them before. I would
have a tutor to correct this part, and that at first
entrance, according to the capacitie of the wit he
hath in hand, he should begin to make shew of it, making
him to have a smacke of all things, and how to choose
and distinguish them, without helpe of others, sometimes
opening him the way, other times leaving him to open
it by himselfe. I would not have him to invent
and speake alone, but suffer his disciple to speake
when his turne commeth. Socrates, and after him
Arcesilaus, made their schollers to speake first,
and then would speake themselves. Obest plerumque
iis qui discere volunt, auctoritas eorum qui docent:
[Footnote: Cic. De Nat. 1. i] “Most
commonly the authoritie of them that teach, hinders
them that would learne.”
It is therefore meet that he make him first trot-on before him, whereby he may the better judge of his pace, and so guesse how long he will hold out, that accordingly he may fit his strength; for want of which proportion we often marre all. And to know how to make a good choice, and how far forth one may proceed (still keeping a due measure), is one of the hardest labours I know. It is a signe of a noble, and effect of an undanted spirit, to know how to second, and how far forth he shall condescend to his childish proceedings, and how to guide them. As for myselfe, I can better and with more strength walke up than