without legal remedy. At all such points the
code will be screwed up by the operation of Votes
for Women, if there be any virtue in the franchise
at all. The result will be that men will find
the more ascetic side of our sexual morality taken
seriously by the law. It is easy to foresee the
consequences. No man will take much trouble to
alter laws which he can evade, or which are either
not enforced or enforced on women only. But when
these laws take him by the collar and thrust him into
prison, he suddenly becomes keenly critical of them,
and of the arguments by which they are supported.
Now we have seen that our marriage laws will not stand
criticism, and that they have held out so far only
because they are so worked as to fit roughly our state
of society, in which women are neither politically
nor personally free, in which indeed women are called
womanly only when they regard themselves as existing
solely for the use of men. When Liberalism enfranchises
them politically, and Socialism emancipates them economically,
they will no longer allow the law to take immorality
so easily. Both men and women will be forced
to behave morally in sex matters; and when they find
that this is inevitable they will raise the question
of what behavior really should be established as moral.
If they decide in favor of our present professed morality
they will have to make a revolutionary change in their
habits by becoming in fact what they only pretend to
be at present. If, on the other hand, they find
that this would be an unbearable tyranny, without
even the excuse of justice or sound eugenics, they
will reconsider their morality and remodel the law.
THE PERSONAL SENTIMENTAL BASIS OF MONOGAMY
Monogamy has a sentimental basis which is quite distinct
from the political one of equal numbers of the sexes.
Equal numbers in the sexes are quite compatible with
a change of partners every day or every hour Physically
there is nothing to distinguish human society from
the farm-yard except that children are more troublesome
and costly than chickens and calves, and that men and
women are not so completely enslaved as farm stock.
Accordingly, the people whose conception of marriage
is a farm-yard or slave-quarter conception are always
more or less in a panic lest the slightest relaxation
of the marriage laws should utterly demoralize society;
whilst those to whom marriage is a matter of more
highly evolved sentiments and needs (sometimes said
to be distinctively human, though birds and animals
in a state of freedom evince them quite as touchingly
as we) are much more liberal, knowing as they do that
monogamy will take care of itself provided the parties
are free enough, and that promiscuity is a product
of slavery and not of liberty.