These committees would follow the same rules as laid down for a hostess—issuing engraved invitations from fourteen to seventeen days in advance, engaging a caterer, etc.
The etiquette for a public ball is the same as for a private one, save that guests arrive and depart when they please without taking leave of those who receive, and men wishing introductions apply for them to the Floor or Reception Committee.
At the cloak-rooms a small fee
is paid to
the attendant.
Seealso all entries under Balls.
Badges. It is customary
for the men and women
on the committees to wear on the left side
of
the breast ornamental and embroidered
badges, with the official position designated
on it.
Committee. The committee
at a public ball
takes the place of the hostess, filling all
her
duties and offices.
PATRONESSES. It is customary for
the management
formally
to invite six, eight, or more
married
women to act as patronesses of the
ball, and
for their names to appear on the
invitations.
If badges are prepared for the
patronesses,
one is sent to each patroness or
handed to
her on the evening of the dance.
The patronesses
should be welcomed at
the ball
by the management, and they then
take their
position ready to receive the guests.
The management should look after the patronesses, to see that they are taken into supper, to introduce prominent guests to them, and, finally, to escort the patronesses to their carriages.
PUBLIC PLACES. SEE ALSO ELEVATORS. RESTAURANTS, STREET-CARS. STREET ETIQUETTE.
R. S. V. P. The use of these letters-standing
for Repondez,
s’il vous plait (Answer, if you
please)-is
decreasing. All invitations to
which acceptances
are expected should be
answered
at once. If preferred, however,
the above
abbreviations may be used on the
following:
invitations to ceremonious receptions,
breakfasts,
luncheons, dinners, and to
meet a prominent
person.
Railroad-men. A man should remove his
hat in a
parlor-car,
but not in a day coach.
Recalling wedding invitations.
When from some
good reason
a wedding has to be canceled or
postponed,
the parents of the bride should
send, as
soon as possible, printed notices, giving
reasons
to all the guests.
Receptions. Reception days are placed in
the lower
left-hand
corner of visiting-cards-as, until
Lent,
or, In January-and may be either
engraved
or written.