If sealing-wax
is used, it should be of some
dull color.
Morning dress.
Men. Morning costume consists
of a dark frock
coat, with
vest and light trousers. This can
be worn
at any entertainment occurring in
the daytime—as,
weddings, luncheons, receptions
of all kinds,
matinees, or ceremonious visits.
Anything worn is admissible in morning dress, a business suit, cutaway, sack suit, hats or caps, and undressed kid gloves of a dark color.
At out-of-town resorts, golf,
wheeling, and
yachting costumes suitable for outdoor sport
may be worn in the morning.
It is considered the correct
thing for a man
to tie his own tie instead of buying them
ready made.
See also afternoon dress—men.
Evening
dress—men.
Mother. A mother should receive an invitation
for
any function
to which her daughters are
invited,
and should go and return with them.
Debuts. The mother and
the elder unmarried
daughter, prior to the debut, calls formally
upon those who are to be invited. She
stands at her daughter’s side to receive
the
congratulations of the guests, and at a dance
she selects the first partner to dance with
the
debutante, and at the dinner or supper is
escorted by the most distinguished man.
See also chaperone.
Mother of bride. At the wedding
reception she is
escorted
by the father of the groom, and
receives
with the married couple.
At the wedding breakfast she
is escorted
by the father of the groom.
Mother of groom. At the wedding
reception she
receives
with the married couple.
At the wedding
breakfast she is taken in
by the father
of the bride, following after
the ushers
and the maids of honor.
Mourning. Those in mourning for parent,
child,
brother,
or husband should not be seen at
any public
function or private entertainment
before six
months have passed.
Cards. These are the same size
as visiting-cards.
A black
border is used, the width to be
regulated
by the relationship to the deceased
relative.
They should
be sent to indicate temporary
retirement
from and re-entrance into society.
Within a month after death in a family friends should leave cards. The persons receiving the same should acknowledge the remembrance and sympathy when they are ready to resume their social functions. This may be done by letter or card.
Men. Mourning cards are the
same size as
visiting-cards,
and a black border is used, the
width to
be regulated by the relationship of
deceased
relative.