The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 295 pages of information about The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions.

The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 295 pages of information about The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions.

MUSICALES. 
See musicales—­invitations.

Pall-bearers
See pall-bearers—­invitations.

Parties
See parties—­invitations.

Telephone
See Telephone invitations.

Theatre
See theatre and opera parties
given by men—­invitations.

Verbal
See verbal invitations.

Ivory wedding.  This is the thirtieth wedding anniversary,
       and is not usually celebrated.  If,
       however, it is done, the invitations may bear
       the words:  No presents received, and in accepting
       or declining the invitation congratulations
       may be extended.  Any article of ivory is appropriate
       as a gift.  An entertainment is usually
       provided.

Jewelry—­men.  Jewelry, except the very plainest,
       should not be worn, and in general the less
       the better.  A display of diamonds and fancy
       jewelry betrays the poor taste of the wearer.

A man wearing the pins and badges of secret societies should see that they are small and unobtrusive, for in jewelry, as in all matters of dress, quality rather than quantity is to be desired.

Jr.  When the son is named after the father, he
       adds Jr. to his name.  Upon the death of the
       father he omits it.  This abbreviation is
       sometimes added to a woman’s name on her
       card when her husband has the same name as
       his father, and it is necessary to distinguish
       between the cards of the daughter-in-law
       and the mother-in-law.

If the mother-in-law should become a widow and wish to retain the husband’s baptismal name, she should add Sr., while her daughter would erase Jr.

       If both become widows, and wish to
       retain their husband’s Christian names, the
       daughter-in-law should add Jr.

Justice of the United states Supreme court—­how
       addressed. An official letter begins:  Sir,
       and ends:  I have, sir, the honor to remain
       your most obedient servant.

       A social letter begins:  Dear Justice Wilson,
       and ends:  Believe me, most sincerely yours.

       The address on the envelope is:  Mr. Justice
       John J. Wilson.

King of England—­how addressed. An official letter
       begins:  Sir, may it please your Majesty, and
       ends:  I have the honor to remain your Majesty’s
       most obedient servant.

       A social letter begins:  Dear Sir, and ends: 
       I have the honor to remain your Majesty’s
       most obedient servant.

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