In the case
of one woman desiring an introduction
to another,
the hostess should be
asked to
bring this about.
Introductions by chaperones.
At entertainments
both the
chaperone and her protege
should enter
together, and the chaperone
should introduce
her protege to the hostess.
Women calling upon.
When calling formally
upon a hostess,
a woman should leave a card,
whether
the hostess was at home or not.
When a son enters society, his mother, when calling, can leave his cards for him, and invitations to entertainments will follow. If it is impossible for him to leave cards for himself she may continue to do so.
Women leaving cards on.
When a mother
leaves her
daughter’s card, it is for the hostess
only.
High teas. See high teas—hostess.
House parties. See house parties—hostess.
Luncheons. See luncheons—hostess.
MATINEES. See matinees—hostess.
Shaking hands. See shaking hands—host.
Weddings. See mother of bride.
HOURS.
Afternoon teas. See afternoon teas—hours.
Breakfasts. See breakfasts—hours.
Calls. See calls—hours.
Dinners. See dinners—hours.
Garden parties. See garden parties—hours.
Luncheons. See luncheons—hours.
MUSICALES. See musicales—hours.
Receptions. See receptions—hours.
Weddings. See weddings—hours.
House funerals. See funerals—house.
House parties. These usually refer
to a group of congenial
persons,
numbering from four to
twenty-four,
and visiting country homes,
making a
stay of a few days or a few weeks.
Dress. The length of the visit
and the nature
of the house
party determines the extent of
wardrobe
necessary. A guest should carry
at least
three changes of suits—one for the
morning,
one suitable for afternoon entertainments,
picnics,
etc., and the regulation
evening
dress.
Guest. To be a welcome guest the
visitor
should accommodate
himself as much as possible
to the plans
of his hostess and the ways
of the home
life.
A visitor
should avoid the common mistake
of refusing
to make a choice when a
choice is
offered.