Sending valuable gifts of jewelry, or any other article, depends largely upon the relationships of the parties, and should not be done unless the sender is sure of its acceptance. Such gifts should not be accepted from mere acquaintances or friends.
It is bad
form for a man to send expensive
presents
to a woman who may be compelled
to return
them.
GLOVES.
Men. At the opera or theatre,
if in full dress,
gloves may
be dispensed with, but they are
worn with
street dress. With formal evening
dress, white
kid gloves should be worn.
For afternoon dress, gloves should be of undressed kid, gray, tan, or brown. When calling, the glove of the right hand should be removed upon entering the drawing-room.
Gloves should not be worn at high teas.
Men—afternoon dress. Undressed
kid
gloves of
a dark color are worn.
Men-balls. Men should always wear
gloves
at all balls,
in summer or winter, in town or
city.
Men-calling on women. Gloves need
not
be removed
at a formal or brief call.
Men-dances. Gloves should be worn
at formal
dances,
and should be put on before entering
the room.
Men-high tea. Men do not wear gloves.
Men-mourning. Black or dark-colored
gloves
should be
worn.
Men—shaking hands. At
weddings, operas,
or dances,
and on all very formal occasions,
men wear
gloves. In shaking hands with
women on
these occasions gloves should not
be removed.
If a hostess
wears gloves at any formal
affair,
a man wears his when he shakes hands
with her.
A man with hands gloved should never shake hands with a woman without an apology for so doing, unless she likewise wears gloves. A sudden meeting, etc., may make a hand-shaking in gloves unavoidable. Unless the other party is also gloved, a man should say: “Please excuse my glove.”
Women. Gloves should always be worn
on the
street.
At dinners,
or formal teas, women should
remove their
gloves at the table and place
them in
their laps.
At dinners and formal teas, when the women have retired to the drawing-room, they may resume their gloves or not, or follow the example of the hostess.
At informal
teas or “At Homes” the
hostess
need not wear gloves.
Breakfast. Gloves should be removed at table.
Dinner. Women may remove their gloves
at
table, and
it is not necessary to replace
them.
They should be laid in the lap. The
hostess
generally determines by her own
actions
whether the women should resume
gloves or
not.