Hours. These are from 3 to 7 P.M.
Invitations. These are issued in
the name of
the hostess,
and may be engraved or written.
Sometimes
the hostess writes on her card:
Garden party,
July 17, from 4 to 7, or she
may use
an at home card, and in the lower
left-hand
corner write: Garden party. The
engraved
card usually indicates an elaborate
affair.
These invitations
may be sent by mail or
messenger.
It is a
good plan to add to the invitations
some information
regarding the trains, or to
enclose
a time-table.
All such
invitations should be promptly
acknowledged
or declined.
Men. Men wear summer business suits,
white
ducks, or
yachting flannels, A tennis suit
would be
permissible.
The regulation frock coat and high hat should be worn only by men from the city attending an affair in the country, or at some extremely fashionable affair.
Men should
greet the hostess both on their
arrival
and departure.
Visiting-cards
are left only at large garden
parties.
Women. Women wear light, delicate,
afternoon
dresses.
They should
greet the hostess, both on their
arrival
and departure.
Visiting-cards
are left only at large and
formal outdoor
affairs.
Germans. See Cotillions.
GIFTS.
After house party.
While not necessary, a
guest after
a house party may send some
trifle to
the hostess as a token of pleasure
and appreciation.
Best man. After the groom selects
the best
man, the
latter should send a gift to the
bride, and
may, if he wish, send it to the
groom, a
custom not yet clearly established.
Christening. A christening ceremony
offers a
good opportunity
for the invited guests so
wishing
to send a gift to the baby. These
should be
sent a day or two before the
ceremony,
and, if of silver, should be suitably
marked with
the child’s name, initials, or
monogram.
Engagement. If both families of the
engaged
couple are
old acquaintances, the parents of
the man
may send a gift along with their
greetings
and congratulations.
Wedding. See weddings—gifts.
Gifts between men and women. Books, flowers,
and other
small articles of decoration are
proper gifts
to accept.