Fish should be eaten with a fork held in the
right
hand and
a piece of bread held in the left hand.
The bones
should be removed from the
mouth with
the aid of a fork or with the
fingers.
If by the latter, great delicacy
should be
used.
Flower girl. The flower girls—one
or two, as may
be the case—follow
the maid of honor up the
isle and
strew flowers in the path of the
bride, who
follows after.
In the procession
down the isle they should
follow the
bride.
Flower girls
and pages are not used now
as much
as formerly.
Flowers. Between friends, flowers may be
sent as
an expression
of sympathy in either joy or
sorrow.
Birth, announcement of.
If wishing to send
congratulations
after a birth, cards should be
left in
person or sent by a messenger. Cut
flowers
may be sent with the card.
Bride. If she wishes, a bride
may present flowers
to her bridesmaids,
and also to the best
man and
ushers.
Christening. A christening ceremony
offers a
good opportunity
for the guests who desire
to present
flowers to the mother. This is
not obligatory,
however, and must remain a
matter of
personal taste.
Condolence calls. When
making a condolence
call upon
a very intimate friend, cut
flowers
may be left in person or sent,
together
with a card, unless request has been
made to
send none.
Debutante. Friends should send
flowers to a
debutante
at a formal tea given in her honor.
Engagement. Flowers should accompany
the
greetings
from the parents of the man to the
parents
of the woman.
Funerals. See funerals—flowers.
Groom. He pays for the bridal
bouquet carried
by the bride
at the wedding ceremony, and, if
he wishes,
for the bouquets carried by the
bridesmaids.
Men. If well acquainted with
a debutante’s
family,
a man may send her flowers at the
time of
her debut.
After a slightly intimate acquaintance, a man can present flowers to a young unmarried woman as a token of sympathy either of joy or sorrow.
It is not
usual for a man to send flowers to
a woman
who is a mere acquaintance.
Balls. It is permissible for
a man, if he wishes,
to send
flowers to a woman he is to escort to
a ball.
Theatre or opera.
It is permissible, but not
necessary,
for a man to send flowers to the
woman he
is to take to the theatre or to the
opera.