Facsimile cards, engraved, are no longer used.
Family of bride. The family, except
the father,
leave the
house first, then the bridesmaids,
the maid
of honor with the mother, and last
the bride
with her father or nearest male
relative.
At church the family is seated by the
ushers.
At the conclusion of the ceremony they are the first to be escorted from their pew and to take their carriage for the wedding reception or breakfast.
Wedding breakfast. The bride’s father
or
her nearest
male relative takes in the groom’s
mother,
and the bride’s mother, as hostess, is
taken in
by the groom’s father.
Wedding reception. The parents of both
bride and
groom stand up with the married
couple,
and are introduced to the guests.
Family of groom. At the church
the family and
relatives
of the groom are seated on one side,
while the
family of the bride and her
relatives
are seated on the other.
Wedding breakfast. The groom’s
mother is
taken in
by the bride’s father, and the groom’s
father takes
in the bride’s mother, who,
acting as
hostess, comes last.
Wedding reception. The
parents of both
bride and
groom stand up with the married
couple,
and are introduced to the guests.
Farewell bachelor dinner. See
bachelor’s farewell
dinners.
Farewell bridal luncheon. See
bride—farewell
luncheon.
FATHER OF BRIDE.
Debuts. When the debut is a
formal one, he
stands beside
his wife and daughter, and
receives
the congratulations of the guests. At
a supper
or dinner he escorts the most
distinguished
woman. If there is no brother to
escort the
debutante, he does so, and she is
seated at
his left hand.
Dinner, engagement. At a formal dinner
given by
the family of the engaged woman
the father
takes out his daughter first and
her fiance
escorts her mother. At the proper
time the
father drinks to the health of his
future son-in-law,
and announces the
engagement.
All rise, and congratulations follow.
He wears evening dress.