after the announcement of the engagement
to the woman, who wears it on the third finger
of her left hand. It should be a small and
unostentatious one. Diamonds, rubies,
moonstones, sapphires, and other precious stones
may be used.
He may ask the woman to aid him in the selection, but it is better for him to make the selection alone. The woman may give the man an engagement ring or a gift if she wishes.
Entertainments—calls after. See calls—men—after
entertainments.
Envelopes, addressing. See addressing envelopes.
Esquire. Either Esq. or Mr. may
be used in
addressing
a letter, but never the two at the
same time.
Evening calls. When no special day
for receiving
is indicated,
calls may be made at any proper
hour, according
to the custom of the locality.
Men of leisure
may call at the fashionable
hours, from
two till five o’clock in the
afternoon,
while business and professional men
may call
between eight and nine in the
evening,
as their obligations prevent them from
observing
the fashionable hours.
EVENING DRESS.
Men. Evening dress should be worn
on all
formal occasions,
consisting of the swallow-
tail coat
of black material, made in the
prevailing
fashion, with waistcoat and trousers
of the same
material; or a white vest may
be worn.
The linen must be white. Studs or shirt- buttons may be worn, according to fashion. The collar should be high, and the cravat white. Low patent-leather shoes and white kid gloves complete the costume.
Evening dress should be worn at all formal functions after six o’clock—as, balls, dinners, suppers, receptions, germans, formal stag parties, theatre, opera, and fashionable evening calls where women are present.
The phrase, “evening dress,”
is now used
in place of full dress.
A Tuxedo should never be worn
when
women are present.
See also Tuxedo.
Clergyman—evening
dress.
Weddings, evening. Full evening
dress is
worn by the groom and ushers. Guests are
likewise in evening dress.
Clergyman. Custom permits a
clergyman to
wear his clerical dress at all functions where
other men wear evening dress, or he may
wear evening dress.
Evening receptions. The etiquette is the same
as
for an afternoon
tea (formal), save that no
cards are
left by the guests, and that they
wear evening
dress.
See afternoon teas (formal).