Women. The time for the formal dance
is indicated
on the invitation,
and all should be
there not
later than half an hour after the
time set.
At private
dances the maid takes and calls
for the
young woman in the absence of a male
escort.
Young women
should be chaperoned at all
formal dances
by their mother or others.
Introductions
should be made as much as
possible
before the dancing begins.
DAUGHTERS.
Cards. The card of the eldest
daughter in
society
is simply Miss Wilson, and upon her
death or
marriage the card of the next
daughter
becomes the same. Where there
are unmarried
aunts and cousins having the
father’s
name, only the eldest daughter of
the eldest
man can use the form Miss Wilson.
If two or
more sisters enter society at
about the
same time, their names may appear
on their
mother’s card as The Misses Wilson.
The name
of the younger daughter should
appear in
full on her mother’s card—as, Miss
Mary Jane
Wilson.
Until the younger daughter has formally, made her debut, she visits only intimate friends of the family. After her debut she has no card, and her full baptismal name appears on her mother’s card, beneath her name, and not until a year or two after her first appearance does she have a card of her own.
When a mother
leaves her daughter’s card,
it is for
the hostess only.
If reception days appear on the mother’s card, the daughters also receive on that day, as they have no reception date of their own.
After an
entertainment the cards of the
family may
be left for the host and hostess
by the eldest
daughter.
The eldest daughter has her
own circle of
acquaintances, and can visit and receive independently
of her mother.
Duties at balls. See balls—duties
of
daughters.
Daughter of Baron—how
addressed. An official
letter begins:
Madam, and ends: I have the
honor to
remain, Madam, your obedient servant.
A social letter begins:
Dear Miss Wilson,
and ends: Believe me, I remain sincerely
yours.
The envelope addressed to the eldest daughter reads: To the Honorable Miss Wilson, but to a younger daughter: To the Honorable Minnie Wilson.
Daughter of Duke—how
addressed. An official
letter begins:
Madam, and ends: I have the
honor to
remain your Ladyship’s most obedient
servant.
The address
on the envelope is: To the
Right Honorable
the Lady Jane F. Wilson.