When the dancing ends, the woman takes her partner’s arm and strolls about a few minutes. He then conducts her to her seat by her chaperone, and, after a few remarks, excuses himself.
When supper is announced, and the young woman and her chaperone are in conversation with the man who danced with her last, they should accept his offer as escort if they are not already provided with one.
If a woman
is without escort when supper
is announced,
she must rely upon attendants
or members
of the host’s family.
At balls and assemblies where small tables are provided for the supper, the woman should not sit alone at a table with her partner, but she should have others present also.
Debutante. At a debutante’s
reception the
first partner
is selected by the mother, usually
the nearest
and dearest friend, who dances
but once
with her, and the others follow.
DANCES (FORMAL).
Host. When supper is announced, the
host
leads the
way with his partner, followed by
hostess
and escort, the rest following.
Hostess. She should limit the
number of guests
to the capacity
of the house.
Invitations should include more men than women, for some men may not attend, and of those who do come, some may not dance.
An awning and carpet should be spread from curb to steps. The man stationed at the curb should open carriage doors for arriving and departing guests, distribute carriage- checks, and tell the drivers at what hour to return.
The servant
opening the door directs the
guests to
their respective dressing-rooms.
A small
orchestra should be provided and
concealed
behind palms or flowers.
In the absence of polished floors, carpets should be covered with linen crash, tightly and securely laid, in order to stand the strain of dancing.
Friends
may assist in taking care of the
guests,
making introductions, etc.
Supper. Supper may be served
at one large
table or
many small ones, as desired.
Dances (informal). Dances
of this character lack all
possible
formality. The invitations may be
written
or verbal.
Piano music
is all that is required, played
by one of
the family or a professional.
Refreshments of a suitable nature are provided.
See also Chaperone. Dances.
DANCING.
Introductions. The man must
be introduced
to the woman,
and should ask her for the
pleasure
of a dance.
Men. A man should greet the host
as soon as
possible
after seeing the hostess.