It is for the hostess to choose the leader
       of the cotillion, and to him are entrusted all
       its details.

At the conclusion of the cotillion the hostess stands at the door with the leader at her side, to receive the greetings and the compliments of the guests.

       See also balls—­hostess.

  Invitations.  The invitations are engraved, and the
       hour for beginning is placed in the lower
       left-hand corner, and are sent out two weeks
       in advance.  They may be sent in one envelope.

       Such invitations should be promptly accepted
       or declined.

COTILIONS by subscriptions.  These are given by leading
       society women, who subscribe to a fund
       sufficient to pay all expenses of the
       entertainment.  They are usually held in some
       fashionable resort where suitable
       accommodations can be had.

       Guests are shown to the cloak-room, where
       attendants check their wraps.

After the supper, the German, or cotillion, begins.  Those not dancing in this generally retire.  When leaving, guests should take leave especially of the patroness inviting them.

  Dress.  Full dress is worn by all.

  Invitations.  The patronesses whose names appear
       on the back of the cards are the subscribers. 
       They send out the invitations to
       their friends.  A presentation card, to be
       shown at the door, is sent with the invitation.

  Men.  Men wear evening dress.

The men wait upon their partners and themselves at the table, the waiters assisting, unless small tables are used, when the patronesses sit by themselves, and others form groups as they like.  The guests are served by the waiters, as at a dinner.

       When retiring, guests should take leave
       especially of the patroness inviting them.

  PATRONESSES.  The patronesses stand in line to
       receive the guests, bowing or shaking hands
       as they prefer.

When supper is announced, the leading patroness leads the way with her escort, the others following.  If small tables are used, the patronesses sit by themselves.

  Women.  Women wear full dress.

       When guests depart, they should take
       leave especially of the patroness inviting
       them.

Countess—­how addressed. An official letter begins: 
       Madam, and ends:  I have the honor to
       remain your Ladyship’s most obedient servant. 
       The address on the envelope is:  To the
       Right Honorable The Countess of Kent.

       A social letter begins:  Dear Lady Kent,
       and ends:  Believe me, dear Lady Kent,
       sincerely yours.