Celery is eaten with the fingers.
Change of residence. Women.
After a change of
residence,
the cards of the entire family
should be
sent out as soon as possible.
Chaperone. A chaperone takes precedence
of her
charge in
entering drawing or dancing rooms
and on ceremonious
occasions. At an entertainment
both enter
together, and the chaperone
should introduce
her protege to the
hostess
and to others. The two should remain
together
during the evening. In a
general
way the chaperon takes under her
charge the
social welfare of her protege.
Balls. A mother should attend
balls with her
daughters,
going and returning with them,
and if she
is not invited, it is in good taste
for the
daughters to decline the invitation.
A father
can act as escort, if need be, instead
of the mother.
A mother can delegate her
powers to
some one else when requested to
act as a
chaperone.
Men calling. A man should
ask the chaperone’s
permission
to call upon her protege,
and once
it is granted no further permission
is necessary.
The chaperone should be present
while a
debutante receives male callers
the first
year, and when the first call is made
she should
be present throughout the evening
and should
decide as to the necessity
of her presence
during subsequent visits.
Cards. A chaperone introducing
and accompanying
young women
should leave her own
card with
that of her protege.
Dances. The chaperone should
give her
permission
to a man who desires to dance,
promenade,
or go to supper with her charge,
who should
not converse with him at length
save at
the chaperon’s side, and the chaperon
should accompany
both to supper. If without
an escort,
the young woman may accept
the invitation
of her last partner before
supper is
announced.
Introductions. A man should
never be introduced
direct by
card or letter to a young
unmarried
woman. If he desires to be
introduced,
the letter or card of introduction
should be
addressed to her chaperone or
mother,
who may then introduce him to the
young woman
if she deems it advisable.
At an entertainment
a chaperone may ask
a young
man if he wishes to be introduced
to the one
under her care.
Letters of introduction.
A man having a
letter of
introduction to a young woman
should present
it in person to the chaperone.
If the latter
is out when he calls, he should
mail it
to her, and she may then notify him
when he
may call, and should herself be
present.