Mourning cards should be sent to indicate temporary retirement from society. Later cards should be sent to indicate return to society.
Afternoon tea. If a woman
is unable to be
present
at an afternoon tea she should send
her card
the same afternoon.
Wedding reception. When
invitations have
been received
to the church but not to the
wedding
reception, cards should be sent to
the bride’s
parents and to the bridal couple.
Women—style, titles.
Women having titles
should use
them before the name—as,
Reverend
or Rev. Mrs. Smith. Physicians use Dr.
before or
M.D. after the name. Office hours
and other
professional matters are omitted on
cards for
social use. Husband’s titles should
never be
used. The home address is put in
the lower
right-hand and the club address in
the lower
left-hand corner.
The card
of the eldest daughter in society
is simply
Miss Wilson.
Cards of admission to church
weddings. These
cards are
used at all public weddings held in
churches,
and when they are used no one
should be
admitted to the church without
one.
They are sent with the wedding invitations.
CARRIAGES.
Balls. See balls-carriages.
Dances. See dances-carriages.
Funerals. See funerals-carriages.
Men. In a general way a man should
provide a
carriage
when escorting a woman in evening
dress to
any function. If she does not wear
evening
dress, and they are going to an informal
affair,
it would be proper to take a
street-car.
Suppers. See supper and theatre parties—men—carriages.
Theatres. See theatres and opera parties given by men—carriages.
Women. A woman accepting, with her
mother’s
or chaperone’s
consent, a man’s invitation to
the theatre
may, with propriety, request him
not to provide
a carriage unless full dress on
her part
is requested.
Catholic priest—how addressed. An official
letter
begins:
Reverend and Dear Sir, and ends: I
have the
honor to remain your humble servant.
A
social letter begins: Dear Father Wilson,
and ends:
I beg to remain faithfully yours,
The
address on the envelope is: The Reverend
John J.
Wilson. But if he holds the
degree of
D.D. (Doctor of Divinity), the
address
is: Reverend John J. Wilson, D.D.,
or Reverend
Dr. John J. Wilson.