At the beginning of a season, a man should leave two cards for all those whose entertainments he is in the habit of attending, or on whom he pays social calls. These cards may also be mailed. If left in person, there should be one for each member of the family called upon, or only two cards. In the former there should be left one card for the host, one for the hostess, one for the “misses,” and one for the rest of the family and their guest.
Men of leisure
should leave their own
cards, while
business men can have them
left by
the women of the family.
The corner
of the card should not be
turned down.
Cards are now left in the hall by the servant and the caller is announced. In business calls the card is taken to the person for whom the caller asked.
When calling,
a man should leave a card
whether
the hostess is at home or not.
P. P. C.
card’s may be left in person or
sent by
mail upon departure from city, or
on leaving
winter or summer resort.
When a man
calls upon a young woman
whom a hostess
is entertaining, he should
leave cards
for both.
When a man
calls upon another man, if he
is not at
home, he should leave a card.
When a man calls on the hostess but not the host he should leave a card for him. If the hostess is out, he should leave two cards—one for each.
Breakfasts, luncheons, dinners.
A man
should leave
a card the day after a breakfast,
luncheon,
or dinner for the host and hostess,
whether
the invitation was accepted or not.
They may
also be sent by mail or messenger,
with an
apology for so doing.
Balls, subscription. Shortly
after receiving
an invitation
to a subscription ball, a man
should leave
a card for the patroness inviting
him.
Debutante. When calling upon
a debutante a
man should
leave cards for her mother,
whether
the entertainment was attended or
not.
Entertainment by men.
After a man’s formal
entertainment
for men, a man should leave a
card within
one week, whether the event was
attended
or not. It can be sent by mail or
messenger.
Reception. When the host and
hostess receive
together,
a man should leave one card for
both, and
if not present at the reception, he
should send
two cards.
Theatre. After a theatre
party given by a
man, he should call within three days on the
woman he escorted or leave his card.
Wedding reception.
After a wedding reception
a man should leave a card for the host
and hostess, and another for the bridal
couple.