Calls. Unless close intimacy exists, calls
should
only be
made on the specified days.
Asking men to call
on women. A debutante
should leave
this matter to her mother
or chaperone.
A young
woman, until she has had some
experience
in society, should be very careful
in inviting
men to call.
She should not invite a man to call whom she has met for the first time. No man should be invited to call until she is assured of his social standing and character.
In some
parts of the country men first ask
permission
to call, and in other parts women
first ask
men to call.
Asking women to call
on women. It is
generally
the custom for the married or elder
woman to
ask the unmarried or younger
woman to
call.
Bachelors’ dinners.
See bachelors’ dinners
—calls.
Breakfast. See breakfasts—calls.
Best man. See best man—calls
Bridesmaids. See bridesmaids—calls.
Chaperones. See chaperones—men calling.
Business. A business man may
call in street
dress upon
a woman before six o’clock.
Social visits
may be made in the same
manner.
Days at home. Calls
should only be made on
the regular
“At Home” days, and the
hostess
should always be present on that day.
Very intimate
friends may set aside this rule.
Debutante. See debutante—calls.
Dress. When making an afternoon
call, a man
would wear
afternoon dress, and evening
dress in
making an evening call.
High tea. See high tea—calls.
Hours. When no special day for
receiving is
indicated,
calls may be made at any proper
hour, according
to the custom of the locality.
Men of leisure
may call at the fashionable
hours from
two till five in the afternoon, while
business
and professional men may call between
eight and
nine in the evening, as their
obligations
prevent them from observing the
fashionable
hours.
Length. A formal call may last
from fifteen to
thirty minutes.
Old friends may stay longer.
Luncheons. See luncheon—calls.
Men. After entertainments.
After an entertainment
a man should
call in person on
host and
hostess, whether the invitation was
accepted
or not. If a card is sent or mailed,
it should
be accompanied with an apology.