At all wedding breakfasts it is customary for the guests to assemble in the drawing-room, and then to enter the breakfast-room together—the bride and groom leading the way.
It is not usual to have the bridal cake at a wedding breakfast, but if such is the case, the bride makes the first cut, and the slices are given first to those at the bridal table.
Wedding reception. She
should stand by her
husband’s
side to receive the best wishes of all
present.
The guests are not announced, but
are introduced
by the ushers to the bride if
not known
to her.
The bride
should not leave her place to
mingle with
the guests until all have been
introduced
to her.
Bride’s family. See family of bride.
Bride’s father. See father of bride.
Bride’s mother. See mother of bride.
Bridegroom. See groom.
Bridesmaids. The bridesmaids are selected
by the
bride, and
number six, eight, or twelve—
mostly eight.
She usually gives them a
dinner a
few days before the wedding, at
which she
shows them the trousseau and discusses
the details
of the wedding.
The ushers and the groom are invited to come after the dinner, and then the rehearsal takes place. The bridesmaids should be present at this and all other rehearsals, and if unable to be present at the wedding should give the bride ample notice, that a substitute may be secured.
Calls. They call upon the mother
of the bride
within a
week or ten days after the ceremony,
and upon
the bride, in her own home, after
her return
from her wedding trip.
Carriages. A carriage provided
by the family
of the bride
calls for the bridesmaid on the
wedding-day,
and takes her to the bride’s
house.
Her carriage follows the bride’s to the
church,
and, after the ceremony, takes her to
the wedding
breakfast or reception.
Church. They meet at the house
of the bride,
and there
take their carriages to the church.
While their
carriages follow that of the bride,
they alight
first and receive her in the vestibule.
They may
carry bouquets supplied by
the bride’s
family or the groom.
In the procession up the aisle they follow the ushers, walking two by two, and as the ushers approach the altar they divide—one-half to the right and one-half to the left. The bridesmaids do likewise, leaving space for the bridal party to pass.
In the procession down the aisle they follow the best man and maid of honor