The kiss
at the altar is no longer in good
form.
At the end of the ceremony, after the clergyman has congratulated the married couple, the bride takes her husband’s right arm and they lead the procession to the vestibule, where they receive the congratulations of near friends. Here the maid of honor and bridesmaids cloak and prepare the bride for the trip home in the groom’s carriage.
Dress. The bride is veiled,
and is dressed in
white-full
dress, day or evening. Gloves
need not
be worn in the church. The bridesmaids
provide
their own outfit, unless the
bride asks
them to dress in a style of her own
selecting.
In this case, she supplies them
gowns, hats,
gloves, and shoes, as she may
wish.
Farewell luncheon. While
a farewell luncheon
given to
the bridesmaids by the bride
is not necessary,
yet it is a pleasant way for a
woman to
entertain her female friends the
last time
in her father’s house.
On this occasion it is a good plan for the bride to give to the maid of honor and brides-maids her souvenirs, which, of course, should be alike, and of use at the wedding ceremony.
Gifts. The bride may give to
the groom a ring
as an engagement
ring if she wishes. She
should make
suitable gifts to the bridesmaids
as souvenirs
of the occasion, and may also
present
them with flowers. If she presents
boutonnieres
to the best man and the ushers,
they should
appear at her house before the
ceremony
and have her place them in the
lapel of
their coats.
She should
acknowledge immediately the
receipt
of all wedding gifts.
Gloves. The bride need not wear
gloves in the
church.
Invitations. At a church wedding
the bride
usually
provides the bridesmaids with extra
invitations
for their personal use.
Kiss. Only the parents of the
bride and her
most intimate
relatives should kiss the bride.
It is now
no longer good form for all to do so.
Seeing groom on wedding-day.
It is not
customary
for the bride to see the groom on
the wedding-day
till she meets him at the
altar.
Wedding breakfast. The bride
and groom
occupy the
centre one of the small tables.