He should not stand in the street and converse with her any length of time. She may excuse herself and pass on. He should not feel affronted.
If he meets
a woman he does not know
accompanied
by a man he does know, both
men bow.
The man
accompanying her should bow
to every
man or woman to whom she bows.
Women. A woman’s bow should
be dignified—
a faint
smile and a gentle inclination of the
head.
Women bow
first to men when meeting in
the street.
A man may bow first if the
acquaintance
is intimate.
When walking with a man, and they meet another unknown to her, but known to her escort, both men bow. If she meets a friend, man or woman, unknown to her escort, he bows.
Unless an introduction has taken place at any function, no recognition is customary. It is the woman’s privilege, however, to decide for herself whether she will recognize the guest or not.
A man bowing
and joining a woman on
the street
must ask permission to do so.
She is at
perfect liberty to gracefully decline.
If a man stops to talk on the street, she may excuse herself and pass on. If she continues the conversation and he stands with his hat in his hand, she may request him to replace it. Such conversations should be brief.
Bread should be broken into small pieces, buttered,
and transferred
with the fingers to the mouth.
The bread
should be placed on the small
plate provided
for the purpose.
Breakfasts. Breakfasts are generally given
from
ten to twelve
in the morning. Very formal
breakfasts
are held at twelve o’clock.
Calls. A call need not be made
after a simple
breakfast,
but obligatory after a formal one.
Dress. Street costumes are worn
by men and
women.
Guests. Guests leave half an
hour after the
breakfast.
Hours. The hour is from 12 to 12.30.
Invitations. Cards are engraved
and sent a
week in
advance for formal breakfasts, but
for informal
breakfasts they may be written.
If given
in honor of a special guest, the
name is
engraved on the card—as, to meet
Mr.
Wilson.
Men. Men are usually invited,
and they are
often given
for men. Men wear street costume.
Guests should leave half an hour after breakfast. A call is not necessary after a simple breakfast, but obligatory after a formal one.
Men leaving cards.
After a breakfast a man
should leave
a card for host and hostess,
whether
the invitation was accepted or not.
Or it may
be sent by mail or messenger, with
an apology
for so doing.