Baronet-how addressed. An official
letter begins:
Sir, and
ends: I have the honor to remain,
sir, your
obedient servant.
A social
letter begins: Dear Sir John Wilson,
or Dear
Sir John, and ends: Believe me,
dear Sir
John, faithfully yours.
The address
on the envelope is: To Sir
John Wilson,
Bart.
Wife of, See wife of baronet.
Best man. The best man is usually a
bachelor, but
may be a
married man or a widower, and is
selected
by the groom. He fills an important
position,
requiring tact, administrative
ability,
and capacity to handle details. He
acts as
the groom’s representative, confidential
advisor,
and business advisor.
After his selection he should send a gift to the bride, and may, if he wish, send it to the groom-a custom not yet clearly established, and one not to be either encouraged or followed with safety.
On the morning of the wedding-day he should have received both the ring and fee from the groom, and should personally see to the church and other details.
He breakfasts
with the groom, and together
they drive
to the church.
Calls. He should call on the
bride’s mother
within two
weeks after the ceremony, and
also on
the married couple upon their return
from their
wedding trip.
Church. He accompanies the groom
into the
chancel,
and stands by his side till the bride
appears,
when he receives the groom’s hat
and gloves,
and stands a little way behind
him.
When the clergyman bids the bride
and groom
join hands, he gives the ring to
to the groom.
At the conclusion of the ceremony, he gives the wedding fee to the clergyman, and hastily leaves the church to summon the groom’s carriage and to return him his hat. He signs the register, if a witness is needed.
It is a better arrangement to have the groom and the best man enter the church without their hats, and have the latter sent from the vestry to the church door, so that the groom may receive his when he leaves the church.
Especially
is this a good arrangement if
the best
man has to walk with the maid of
honor down
the aisle.
After this, he hastens in his own carriage to the bride’s home, to assist in meeting and introducing the guests at the reception or breakfast.
Dress. If the bride presents
the best man with
the boutonniere, he should go to her house
on the wedding-day to have her put it in the
lapel of his coat.
He should dress as nearly as possible like the groom-wearing afternoon dress at an afternoon wedding, and at an evening wedding evening dress.
See also groom-dress.