Sunday calls. Informal calls may be
made on
Sunday after
three o’clock by business and
professional
men, provided there are no religious
or other
scruples on the part of those receiving
the calls.
Men should wear afternoon dress.
Suppers given by men—women.
A young woman
may accept
a man’s invitation, provided she
has the
consent of her mother or guardian,
and is assured
that a chaperone will be present.
Suppers—men. Suppers are
generally for men.
The hours
are from ten to eleven. A man can
give such
entertainments in bachelor apartments
or restaurant,
and if women are invited,
chaperones
should be present.
The invitations may be given personally, written, or a visiting-card may be used, giving hour and date. If the supper is given in honor of a special guest, engraved cards or note sheets are used.
Suppers may be
of various kinds—such as
Fish, Game, Wine,
Champagne.
Suppers and theatre parties.
Men. A man should not invite
a young woman
to a theatre
party or supper without inviting
her mother
or a chaperone to accompany
them.
At large theatre parties or suppers,
when there
are ten or more guests, several
chaperones
should be invited. Any married
or elderly
unmarried woman can act as
chaperone,
care being taken that they are
well-known
and agreeable to all, as much of the
pleasure
of the evening depends upon them.
Carriages. A conveyance holding
a large party
can be sent
to take invited guests to the
entertainment.
The chaperone should be
called for
first, and should be the last one to
be left
at home upon returning. The chaperones
may use
their own carriages and call
for guests
if they desire. If the chaperones
call for
the guests, the men can be met at the
place of
amusement. Conveyances should
be provided
for guests.
Suppers given by bachelors.
See
bachelors’ suppers.
Table etiquette. It is correct to take
a little of all
that is
offered, though one may not care for it.
Bend slightly
over the plate when carrying
the food
to the mouth, resuming upright
position
afterward.
When drinking from a cup or
glass, raise it
gracefully to the mouth and sip the contents.
Do not empty the vessel at one draught.