When walking with a woman, a man should walk near the curb, unless passing an obstruction-as, a building in course of construction-when she should have the outer side to protect her from harm, or from coming in contact with disagreeable things.
A man should offer his right arm to a woman, but this is rarely necessary in the daytime. It is essential, however, and proper for him to do so after dark.
Women. Conduct on the street
should always
be reserved.
It is bad form to loudly laugh
or to boldly
glance at the passers-by, especially
men.
Women should
never walk three or four
abreast.
Women may
salute each other with a bow
and a handshake,
but a kiss in public is no
longer in
good form.
During a
promenade, where friends pass
and repass,
it is not necessary to exchange
greetings
to each other.
A polite
“Thank you,” with a bow and a
smile, should
be the reward of any man extending
a courtesy
to a woman.
Bowing. It is the woman’s
privilege to determine
whom she
will publicly recognize, and
therefore
she should bow first to all men
whom she
desires to favor. This formality
is, however,
unnecessary with intimate
friends.
Umbrellas. These should be carried
vertically,
and never
horizontally under the arm.
Walking. If a woman is walking
with a man,
and another
man stops to speak, it would be
in exceeding
bad taste to ask him to join her.
A woman
should take a man’s right arm,
but only
after dark, unless for some special
reason-as,
weakness, etc.-it is necessary.
If a woman is walking alone, and a man of her acquaintance stops and speaks, he may ask permission to accompany her farther, which, if agreeable, should be granted. She may stop for a few moments’ chat, and shake hands if she wishes. If he stands before her with uncovered head, she should promptly ask him to replace his hat. She should not block the thoroughfare, and should take the initiative if he does not step to one side. If agreeable, an invitation may be extended to him to walk a short distance.
Subscription balls.
Men. Shortly after receiving
an invitation to a
subscription
ball, a man should leave a card
for the
patroness inviting him.
Invitations. In addition to
the regular invitations,
it is customary
to guard against the
admission
of persons not really invited by
the use
of vouchers to be shown at the
hall door,
or some similar precaution is
taken.
When a subscriber
sends an invitation and
a voucher,
he should send in the same
envelope
one of his calling cards.