The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 295 pages of information about The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions.

The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions eBook

This eBook from the Gutenberg Project consists of approximately 295 pages of information about The Book of Good Manners; a Guide to Polite Usage for All Social Functions.

  Women—­dress.  There is a well-prescribed
       riding-dress for women as for men.  The
       habit of dark material, with skirt falling just
       over the feet when in the saddle, and the
       close-fitting waist, with long or short tails,
       together with the white collar and black or
       white tie, constitute the regulation dress. 
       The derby hat is smaller than formerly. 
       Gloves of a dark color and a crop with a
       bone handle are always in place.  Any
       jewelry, save that which is absolutely necessary,
       should be shunned.

       In summer it is permissible to modify this
       costume.

       As in the case of a man, a woman should
       consult a tailor of good practical experience,
       that her costume may be in the correct style.

Ring, engagement.  See engagement ring.

Ring, wedding.  See wedding ring.

Rising from the table.  The signal to leave the
       table is always given by the women, and the
       men rise to let the women pass.  At a formal
       dinner the signal is given by the hostess.

Salt is best taken up with the tip of the knife.

Salted nuts are eaten with the fingers.

Seat of honor is at the right of the host.

Second helping.  At formal dinner parties, luncheons,
       and breakfasts, second helpings are
       never offered by the host or hostess, and
       should not be asked for by the guests.  This
       is only permissible at a small dinner party
       or at the daily family meal.

Of course, this does not apply to a second glass of water, for which the guest asks, or for wine.  It is the duty of the waiter to see that the guest is constantly supplied.

Second marriages.  See widows—­weddings.

Secretary of agriculture.  See agriculture, Secretary of.

Secretary of Commerce.  See Commerce, Secretary of.

SECRETARY OF INTERIOR.  SEE INTERIOR, SECRETARY OF.

SECRETARY OF NAVY.  SEE NAVY, SECRETARY OF.

Secretary of state.  See state, Secretary of.

Secretary of treasury.  See treasury, Secretary of.

SECRETARY OF WAR.  SEE WAR, SECRETARY OF.

Seeds should be removed from the mouth with the
       aid of a fork, or dropped into the half-closed
       hand.

Senator—­how addressed. An official letter begins: 
       Sir, and ends:  I have, sir, the honor to
       remain your most obedient servant.

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