indirect flattery of his correspondent. It would
rather seem that Chopin’s undoubtedly real love
for Matuszynski was not unmixed with a certain kind
of contempt. And here I must tell the reader
that while Poles have so high an opinion of their nation
in comparison with other nations, and of their countrymen
with other countrymen, they have generally a very
mean opinion of each other. Indeed, I never met
with a Pole who did not look down with a self-satisfied
smile of pity on any of his fellow-countrymen, even
on his best friend. It seems that their feeling
of individual superiority is as great as that of their
national superiority. Liszt’s observations
(see Vol. I., p. 259) and those of other writers
(Polish as well as non-Polish) confirm mine, which
else might rightly be supposed to be based on too limited
an experience. To return to Matuszynski, he may
have been too ready to advise and censure his friend,
and not practical enough to be actively helpful.
After reading the letters addressed to them one comes
to the conclusion that Fontana’s and Franchomme’s
serviceableness and readiness to serve went for something
in his appreciation of them as friends. At any
rate, he did not hesitate to exploiter them most unconscionably.
Taking a general view of the letters written by him
during the last twelve years of his life, one is struck
by the absence of generous judgments and the extreme
rareness of sympathetic sentiments concerning third
persons. As this was not the case in his earlier
letters, ill-health and disappointments suggest themselves
naturally as causes of these faults of character and
temper. To these principal causes have, however,
to be added his nationality, his originally delicate
constitution, and his cultivation of salon manners
and tastes. His extreme sensitiveness, fastidiousness,
and irritability may be easily understood to derive
from one or the other of these conditions.
George Sand’s Ma Vie throws a good deal of light on Chopin’s character; let us collect a few rays from it:—
He [Chopin] was modest on principle and
gentle [doux] by
habit, but he was imperious by instinct,
and full of a
legitimate pride that did not know itself.
He was certainly not made to live long in this world, this extreme type of an artist. He was devoured by the dream of an ideal which no practical philosophic or compassionate tolerance combated. He would never compound with human nature. He accepted nothing of reality. This was his vice and his virtue, his grandeur and his misery. Implacable to the least blemish, he had an immense enthusiasm for the least light, his excited imagination doing its utmost to see in it a sun.
He was the same in friendship [as in love], becoming enthusiastic at first sight, getting disgusted, and correcting himself [se reprenant] incessantly, living on infatuations full of charms for those who were the object of them, and on secret discontents which poisoned his dearest affections.
Chopin accorded to me, I may say honoured
me with, a kind of
friendship which was an exception in his
life. He was always
the same to me.