That child with whom you are so fondly playing—­whose happy and smiling (sic) contenance might serve for the representation of a cherub, and whose merry laugh rings joyously and free—­yes! that blooming child, notwithstanding all these pleasing and attractive smiles, has a heart prone to evil.  To you is it committed to be the teacher of that child; and on that teaching will mainly if not entirely depend its future happiness or misery; not of a few brief years—­not of a life-time, but of eternity; for though a dying creature, it is still immortal, and the happiness or misery of that immortality depends upon your instruction.

Will you neglect or refuse to be your child’s teacher?  Shall the world and its pleasures draw off your attention from your duty when so much is at stake? or, will you leave your child to glean knowledge as best it can, thus imbibing all principles and all habits, most of them unwholesome, and many poisonous?  You can decide—­you, the mother.  You gave it life, you may make that life a blessing or a curse, as you (sic) inclulcate good or evil; for if through your neglect, or through bad example, you let evil passions obtain an ascendency, that child may grow into a dissolute and immoral man; his career may be one of debauchery and profaneness; and then, when he comes to die, in the agonies of remorse, in the delirium of a conscience-stricken spirit, he may gasp out his last breath with a curse on your head, for having given him life, but not a disposition to use it aright, so that his has been a life of shame and disgrace here, and will be one of misery hereafter.  That child’s character is yet untainted; with you that decision rests—­his destiny is in your hands.  He may have dispositions the most dark and foul—­falseness, hatred and revenge; but you may prevent their growth.  He may have dispositions the most bland and attractive; you can so order it that contact with the world shall never sully them.  Yes, you—­the mother—­can prevent the evil and nurture the good.  You can teach that child—­you can rear it, discipline it.  You can make your offspring so love you, that the memory of your piety shall prevent their wickedness, and the hallowed recollection of your goodness stimulate their own.

And equally in your power is it to neglect your child.  By suffering pleasure to lure you—­by following the follies of fashion, or by the charm of those baubles which the world presents to the eye, but keeps from your grasp—­you may neglect your child.  But you have neglected a plain and positive duty—­a duty which is engraven on your heart and wound into your nature:  and a duty neglected is sure, sooner or later, to come back again as an avenger to punish; while, on the other hand, a duty performed to the best of the ability returns back to the performer laden with a blessing.

But it may be said, how are children to be trained in order that happiness may be the result?

It is quite impossible to lay down rules for the management of children; since those which would serve for guidance in regulating the conduct of one child, would work the worst results when applied to another.  But we mention a few particulars.