The day that followed this night of reconciliation had many hours of sober introversion of thought for both Emerson and his wife; hours in which memory reproduced language, conduct and sentiments that could not be dwelt upon without painful misgivings for the future.  They understood each other too well to make light account of things said and done, even in anger.

In going over, as Irene did many times, the language used by her husband on the night before, touching their relation as man and wife, and his prerogative, she felt the old spirit of revolt arising.  She tried to let her thought fall into his rational presentation of the question involving precedence, and even said to herself that he was right; but pride was strong, and kept lifting itself in her mind.  She saw, most clearly, the hardest aspect of the case.  It was, in her view, command and obedience.  And she knew that submission was, for her, impossible.

On the part of Emerson, the day’s sober thought left his mind in no more hopeful condition than that of his wife.  The pain suffered in consequence of her temporary flight from home, though lessened by her return, had not subsided.  A portion of confidence in her was lost.  He felt that he had no guarantee for the future; that at any moment, in the heat of passion, she might leave him again.  He remembered, too distinctly, her words on the night before, when he tried to make her comprehend his view of the relation between man and wife—­“That will not suit me, Hartley.”  And he felt that she was in earnest; that she would resist every effort he might make to lead and control as a man in certain things, just as she had done from the beginning.

In matrimonial quarrels you cannot kiss and make up again, as children do, forgetting all the stormy past in the sunshiny present.  And this was painfully clear to both Hartley and Irene, as she, alone in her chamber, and he, alone in his office, pondered, on that day of reconciliation, the past and the future.  Yet each resolved to be more forbearing and less exacting; to be emulous of concession, rather than exaction; to let love, uniting with reason, hold pride and self-will in close submission.

Their meeting, on Hartley’s return home, at his usual late hour in the afternoon, was tender, but not full of the joyous warmth of feeling that often showed itself.  Their hearts were not light enough for ecstasy.  But they were marked in their attentions to each other, emulous of affectionate words and actions, yielding and considerate.  And yet this mutual, almost formal, recognition of a recent state of painful antagonism left on each mind a feeling of embarrassment, checked words and sentences ere they came to utterance, and threw amid their pleasant talks many intermittent pauses.