danger and loving love, from which they demand much,
and to which they grant little; beyond every thing
they prize renown and glory. All heroism is dear
to them. Perhaps there is no one among them who
would think it possible to pay too dearly for a brilliant
action; and yet, let us say it with reverence, many
of them devote to obscurity their most holy sacrifices,
their most sublime virtues. But however exemplary
these quiet virtues of the home life may be, neither
the miseries of private life, nor the secret sorrows
which must prey upon souls too ardent not to be frequently
wounded, can diminish the wonderful vivacity of their
emotions, which they know how to communicate with
the infallible rapidity and certainty of an electric
spark. Discreet by nature and position, they manage
the great weapon of dissimulation with incredible
dexterity, skillfully reading the souls of others
with out revealing the secrets of their own.
With that strange pride which disdains to exhibit
characteristic or individual qualities, it is frequently
the most noble virtues which are thus concealed.
The internal contempt they feel for those who cannot
divine them, gives them that superiority which enables
them to reign so absolutely over those whom they have
enthralled, flattered, subjugated, charmed; until
the moment arrives when—loving with the
whole force of their ardent souls, they are willing
to brave and share the most bitter suffering, prison,
exile, even death itself, with the object of their
love! Ever faithful, ever consoling, ever tender,
ever unchangeable in the intensity of their generous
devotion! Irresistible beings, who in fascinating
and charming, yet demand an earnest and devout esteem!
In that precious incense of praise burned by M. de
Balzac, “in honor of that daughter of a foreign
soil,” he has thus sketched the Polish woman
in hues composed entirely of antitheses: “Angel
through love, demon through fantasy; child through
faith, sage through experience; man through the brain,
woman through the heart; giant through hope, mother
through sorrow; and poet through dreams.” [Footnote:
Dedication of “Modeste Mignon".]
The homage inspired by the Polish women is always fervent. They all possess the poetic conception of an ideal, which gleams through their intercourse like an image constantly passing before a mirror, the comprehension and seizure of which they impose as a task. Despising the insipid and common pleasure of merely being able to please, they demand that the being whom they love shall be capable of exacting their esteem. This romantic temperament sometimes retains them long in hesitation between the world and the cloister. Indeed, there are few among them who at some moment of their lives have not seriously and bitterly thought of taking refuge within the walls of a convent.