it cannot be wrong. And in any event, it is helpful
to speak of happiness to those who are sad, that thus
at least they may learn what it is that happiness
means. They are ever inclined to regard it as
something beyond them, extraordinary, out of their
reach. But if all who may count themselves happy
were to tell, very simply, what it was that brought
happiness to them, the others would see that between
sorrow and joy the difference is but as between a
gladsome, enlightened acceptance of life and a hostile,
gloomy submission; between a large and harmonious
conception of life, and one that is stubborn and narrow.
“Is that all?” the unhappy would cry.
“But we too have within us, then, the elements
of this happiness.” Surely you have them
within you! There lives not a man but has them,
those only excepted upon whom great physical calamity
has fallen. But speak not lightly of this happiness.
There is no other. He is the happiest man who
best understands his happiness; for he is of all men
most fully aware that it is only the lofty idea, the
untiring, courageous, human idea, that separates gladness
from sorrow. Of this idea it is helpful to speak,
and as often as may be; not with the view of imposing
our own idea upon others, but in order that they who
may listen shall, little by little, conceive the desire
to possess an idea of their own. For in no two
men is it the same. The one that you cherish
may well bring no comfort to me; nor shall all your
eloquence touch the hidden springs of my life.
Needs must I acquire my own, in myself, by myself;
but you unconsciously make this the easier for me,
by telling of the idea that is yours. It may
happen that I shall find solace in that which brings
sorrow to you, and that which to you speaks of gladness
may be fraught with affliction for me. But no
matter; into my grief will enter all that you saw
of beauty and comfort, and into my joy there will
pass all that was great in your sadness, if indeed
my joy be on the same plane as your sadness.
It behoves us, the first thing of all, to prepare
in our soul a place of some loftiness, where this
idea may be lodged; as the priests of ancient religions
laid the mountain peak bare, and cleared it of thorn
and of root for the fire to descend from heaven.
There may come to us any day, from the depths of the
planet Mars, the infallible formula of happiness,
conveyed in the final truth as to the aim and the government
of the universe. Such a formula could only bring
change or advancement unto our spiritual life in the
degree of the desire and expectation of advancement
in which we might long have been living. The formula
would be the same for all men, yet would each one benefit
only in the proportion of the eagerness, purity, unselfishness,
knowledge, that he had stored up in his soul.
All morality, all study of justice and happiness,
should truly be no more than preparation, provision
on the vastest scale—a way of gaining experience,
a stepping-stone laid down for what is to follow.
Surely, desirable day of all days were the one when
at last we should live in absolute truth, in immovable
logical certitude; but in the meantime it is given
us to live in a truth more important still, the truth
of our soul and our character; and some wise men have
proved that this life can be lived in the midst of
gravest material errors.