Then she began her steady journey toward strong nerves and a wholesome, happy life.  She began the process of changing her brain impressions.  If she heard noises that annoyed her she would use her will to direct her attention toward dropping resistance to the noises, and in order to drop her mental resistance she gave her attention to loosening out the bodily contractions.  Finally she became interested in the new process as in a series of deep and true experiments.  Of course her living and intelligent interest enabled her to gain very much faster, for she not only enjoyed her growing freedom, but she also enjoyed seeing her experiments work.  Nature always tends toward health, and if we stop interfering with her she will get us well.

There is just this difference between the healing of a physical sore and the healing of strained and irritated nerves With the one our bodies are healed, and things go on in them about the same as before.  With the other, every use of the will to free ourselves from the irritation and its cause not only enables us to get free from the nervous illness, but in addition brings us new nerve vigor.

When nervous illness is met deeply enough and in the normal way, the result is that the nerves become stronger than ever before.

Often the effect of nervous strain in women is constant talking.  Talk—­talk—­talk, and mostly about themselves, their ailments, their worries, and the hindrances that are put in their way to prevent their getting well.  This talking is not a relief, as people sometimes feel.  It is a direct waste of vigor.  But the waste would be greater if the talk were repressed.  The only real help comes when the talker herself recognizes the strain of her talk and “loosens” into silence.

People must find themselves out to get well—­really well—­from nervous suffering.  The cause of nervous strain is so often in the character and in the way we meet circumstances and people that it seems essential to recognize our mistakes in that direction, and to face them squarely before we can do our part toward removing the causes of any nervous illness.

Remember it is not circumstances that keep us ill.  It is not people that cause our illness.  It is not our environment that overcomes us.  It is the way we face and deal with circumstances, with people, and with environment that keeps our nerves irritated or keeps them quiet and wholesome and steady.

Let me tell the story of two men, both of whom were brought low by severe nervous breakdown.  One complained of his environment, complained of circumstances, complained of people.  Everything and every one was the cause of his suffering, except himself.  The result was that he weakened his brain by the constant willful and enforced strain, so that what little health he regained was the result of Nature’s steady and powerful tendency toward health, and in spite of the man himself.