Bonaparte did not leave Milan on the 9th; he remained there, waiting for Josephine, to lift her up in his arms from her carriage, and to bear her into her apartments; to enjoy with her a few happy days of a quiet, domestic, and mutual love, all to themselves.

His presence with the army, however, soon became a matter of necessity; for Alvinzi was advancing with considerable re-enforcements, with two army corps to the relief of Mantua, and Bonaparte, notwithstanding his pressing remonstrances to the Directory, having received but few re-enforcements and very little money, had to exert all his powers and energy to press a few advantages from the superior forces of the enemy.  Everywhere his presence and personal action were needed; and, constantly busy with war, ever sword in hand, he could not, for long weeks, even once take pen in hand and write to his Josephine.  His longings had to subside before the force of circumstances, which claimed the general’s whole time.

On the 3d of February, 1797, he again finds time to send her a few lines, to say that he is breaking up and going to Rimini.  Then, after Alvinzi had been again defeated, after the fortress of Mantua had capitulated, Bonaparte had to break up again and go to Rome, to require from the pope the reason why he had made common cause with Austria, and shown himself the enemy of the French republic.  In Bologna he lingered a few days, as Josephine, in compliance with his wishes, had come there to make amends by her presence for so long a separation.

She remained in Bologna, while Bonaparte advanced toward the city of the Church.  But the gloomy quietude, the constant rumors of war, the threatening dangers, the intrigues with which she was surrounded, the hostile exertions of the priests, the want of society, of friendly faces, every thing had a tendency to make Josephine’s residence in Bologna very disagreeable, and to bring on sadness and nervousness.

In this gloomy state of mind she writes to Bonaparte that she feels sick, exhausted and helpless; that she is anxious to return to Paris.  He answers her from Ancona: 

“The 8th Pluviose, Year V. (February 16, 1797).

“You are sad, you are sick, you write to me no longer, you wish to return to Paris!  Do you no longer love your friend?  This thought makes me very unhappy.  My dear friend, life is intolerable to me, since I have heard of your sadness.

“I send you at once Moscati to take care of you.  My health is somewhat feeble; my cold hangs on.  I pray you spare yourself, and love me as much as I love you, and do write every day.  My restlessness is horrible.

“I have given orders to Moscati to accompany you to Ancona, if you will come.  I will write to you and let you know where I am.

“I may perhaps make peace with the pope, and then will soon be with you; it is the most intense desire of my life.

“I send a hundred kisses.  Think not that any thing can equal my love, unless it be my solicitude for you.  Write to me every day yourself, my dearly-beloved one!