But the reader must keep clear in his mind the distinction between conduct that is right or permissible in itself and conduct that becomes either inadvisable or mischievous and wrong because of the circumstances about it.  There is no harm under ordinary conditions in asking a boy with a pleasant voice to sing a song in the night, but the case is altered altogether if you have reason to suppose that a Red Indian is lying in wait a hundred yards off, holding a loaded rifle and ready to fire at the voice.  It is a valid objection to many actions that I do not think objectionable in themselves, that to do them will discharge a loaded prejudice into the heart of my friend—­or even into my own.  I belong to the world and my work, and I must not lightly throw my time, my power, my influence away.  For a splendid thing any risk or any defiance may be justifiable, but is it a sufficiently splendid thing?  So far as he possibly can a man must conform to common prejudices, prevalent customs and all laws, whatever his estimate of them may be.  But he must at the same time to his utmost to change what he thinks to be wrong.

And I think that conformity must be honest conformity.  There is no more anti-social act than secret breaches, and only some very urgent and exceptional occasion justifies even the unveracity of silence about the thing done.  If your personal convictions bring you to a breach, let it be an open breach, let there be no misrepresentation of attitudes, no meanness, no deception of honourable friends.  Of course an open breach need not be an ostentatious breach; to do what is right to yourself without fraud or concealment is one thing, to make a challenge and aggression quite another.  Your friends may understand and sympathize and condone, but it does not lie upon you to force them to identify themselves with your act and situation.  But better too much openness than too little.  Squalid intrigue was the shadow of the old intolerably narrow order; it is a shadow we want to illuminate out of existence.  Secrets will be contraband in the new time.

And if it chances to you to feel called upon to make a breach with the institution or custom or prejudice that is, remember that doing so is your own affair.  You are going to take risks and specialize as an experiment.  You must not expect other people about you to share the consequences of your dash forward.  You must not drag in confidants and secondaries.  You must fight your little battle in front on your own responsibility, unsupported—­and take the consequences without repining.

3.31.  Conduct towards transgressors.