as the cultivation of will power, as it is called,
is concerned, I have no quarrel with those who maintain
that a power of self-control is the basis of human
happiness. So far as the will can be trained to
obey only those instincts that tend to the growth
and maintenance of self-respect—to prevent
the subordination of our better feelings to the overpowering
effects of passion, greed, or injustice—it
must help to the development of one of the primary
necessities of a sane existence. When, however,
the same agency is brought to bear on the treatment
of diseases in any shape or form I find my faith wavering.
Though there may be more things in earth and heaven
than are dreamed of in my philosophy, I was not prepared
to follow the teachings set before us by the interpreters
of this belief, whose visit had made an interesting
break in the lives of many people. Truth I find
everywhere expressed, goodness in all things; but
I neither look for nor expect perfection in any one
thing the world has ever produced. “Tell
me where God is,” a somewhat, cynical sceptic
asked of a child. “Tell me where He is
not,” replied the child; and the same thing applies
to goodness. Do not tell me where goodness is,
but point out to, me, if you can, where it is not.
It is for each one to find out for himself where the
right path lies, and to follow it with all his strength
of mind and of purpose. Pippa’s song, “God’s
in His heaven-all’s right with the world,”
does not mean that the time has come for us to lay
down our arms in the battle of right against wrong.
No! no; it is an inspiration for us to gird our loins
afresh, to “right the wrongs that need resistance;”
for, God being in His heaven, and the world itself
being right, makes it so much easier to correct mistakes
that are due to human agencies and shortcomings only.
I found time to spend a pleasant week at Victor Harbour
with my friends, Mr. and Mrs. John Wyles. I remember
one day being asked whether I was not sorry I never
married. “No,” I replied, “for,
although I often envy my friends the happiness they
find in their children, I have never envied them their
husbands.” I think we must have been in
a frivolous mood; for a lady visitor, who was present,
capped my remark with the statement that she was quite
sure Miss Spence was thankful that when she died she
would not be described as the “relic”
of any man. It was the same lady who on another
occasion, when one of the juvenile members of the
party asked whether poets had to pay for poetical
licence, wittily replied, “No, my dear, but their
readers do!” Although so much of my time has
been spent in public work, I have by no means neglected
or despised the social side of life. Visits to
my friends have always been delightful to me, and I
have felt as much interested in the domestic virtues
of my many acquaintances as I have been an admirer
of their grasp of literature, politics, or any branch
of the arts or sciences in which they have been interested.