Whether this made him faithfuler to the trust put in him I cannot say, but probably not; it was always in him to be faithful to any trust, and in proportion as a trust of his own was betrayed he was ruthlessly and implacably resentful.  But I wish now to speak of the happiness of that household in Hartford which responded so perfectly to the ideals of the mother when the three daughters, so lovely and so gifted, were yet little children.  There had been a boy, and “Yes, I killed him,” Clemens once said, with the unsparing self-blame in which he would wreak an unavailing regret.  He meant that he had taken the child out imprudently, and the child had taken the cold which he died of, but it was by no means certain this was through its father’s imprudence.  I never heard him speak of his son except that once, but no doubt in his deep heart his loss was irreparably present.  He was a very tender father and delighted in the minds of his children, but he was wise enough to leave their training altogether to the wisdom of their mother.  He left them to that in everything, keeping for himself the pleasure of teaching them little scenes of drama, learning languages with them, and leading them in singing.  They came to the table with their parents, and could have set him an example in behavior when, in moments of intense excitement, he used to leave his place and walk up and down the room, flying his napkin and talking and talking.

It was after his first English sojourn that I used to visit him, and he was then full of praise of everything English:  the English personal independence and public spirit, and hospitality, and truth.  He liked to tell stories in proof of their virtues, but he was not blind to the defects of their virtues:  their submissive acceptance of caste, their callousness with strangers; their bluntness with one another.  Mrs. Clemens had been in a way to suffer socially more than he, and she praised the English less.  She had sat after dinner with ladies who snubbed and ignored one another, and left her to find her own amusement in the absence of the attention with which Americans perhaps cloy their guests, but which she could not help preferring.  In their successive sojourns among them I believe he came to like the English less and she more; the fine delight of his first acceptance among them did not renew itself till his Oxford degree was given him; then it made his cup run over, and he was glad the whole world should see it.

His wife would not chill the ardor of his early Anglomania, and in this, as in everything, she wished to humor him to the utmost.  No one could have realized more than she his essential fineness, his innate nobleness.  Marriages are what the parties to them alone really know them to be, but from the outside I should say that this marriage was one of the most perfect.  It lasted in his absolute devotion to the day of her death, that delayed long in cruel suffering, and that left one side of him in lasting night.  From Florence